{"id":190,"date":"2004-02-12T20:43:00","date_gmt":"2004-02-12T15:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/blog\/2004\/02\/12\/cialdini-on-influence\/"},"modified":"2024-12-10T13:58:07","modified_gmt":"2024-12-10T08:28:07","slug":"cialdini-on-influence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/2004\/02\/cialdini-on-influence\/","title":{"rendered":"Cialdini on Influence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How it is that one person can more successfully get another person to say yes to a request?<\/p>\n<p>When Robert Cialdini set out on a journey to find the answer to this question, his quest ended with him authoring a powerful book called &#8220;<em>Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion<\/em>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>In a <a href=\"http:\/\/ucsub.colorado.edu\/~schwartb\/booknotes\/Cialdini_interview.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">candid interview<\/a> posted online, he shares with us the distillation of his extensive research into six &#8220;universals of influence&#8221; and explains how they can be used:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Scarcity<span style=\"font-size: revert; color: initial;\"> &#8212; If we can&#8217;t have it, we want it<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Similarities &#8212; We like people who are like us<\/li>\n<li>Social Proof<span style=\"font-size: revert; color: initial;\"> &#8212; We decide based on what people around us just like us have done <\/span><\/li>\n<li>Reciprocation &#8212;<span style=\"font-size: revert; color: initial;\"> We feel obligated to give back the form of behavior we receive <\/span><\/li>\n<li>Authority &#8212; <span style=\"font-size: revert; color: initial;\">We value expertise, background and credentials in a particular arena<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Commitment and Consistency &#8211; We place a premium on these when seeking solutions<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a title=\"Amazon Search Result\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/external-search?tag=naveebachwswe-20&amp;keyword=cialdini+influence+psychology&amp;mode=books\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Buy this book<\/a> &#8211; It&#8217;s a must-read for any one interested in the psychology of persuasion.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How it is that one person can more successfully get another person to say yes to a request? When Robert Cialdini set out on a<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[7,14],"class_list":["post-190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","tag-life","tag-work"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=190"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/190\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4951,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/190\/revisions\/4951"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/greymatter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}