{"id":884,"date":"2012-05-04T09:39:00","date_gmt":"2012-05-04T04:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/dad\/?p=884"},"modified":"2012-05-04T09:39:00","modified_gmt":"2012-05-04T04:09:00","slug":"words-can-hurt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/2012\/05\/words-can-hurt\/","title":{"rendered":"Words Can Hurt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In an excellent writeup I encountered via Facebook, a &#8216;team mom&#8217; writes about &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/shine.yahoo.com\/team-mom\/5-things-parents-shouldnt-kids-171300904.html\" target=\"_blank\">5 Things Parents Shouldn&#8217;t Say to Their Kids<\/a>&#8220;. The premise of the article is that the best of parents can do with some help and guidance on things to avoid saying to their children, because &#8220;how moms and dads communicate with their kids directly impacts the parent-child relationship long term&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the list in brief, but I&#8217;d highly recommend you read the entire article&#8230;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>&#8220;I don&#8217;t care.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Act your age!&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Say you&#8217;re sorry!&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Don&#8217;t you get it?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m going to leave without you!&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The post not only explains each of these in detail, but also offers helpful suggestions on what to do instead. Take the time to read <a href=\"http:\/\/shine.yahoo.com\/team-mom\/5-things-parents-shouldnt-kids-171300904.html\" target=\"_blank\">this one<\/a>. You won&#8217;t regret it.<\/p>\n<div id=\"_mcePaste\" class=\"mcePaste\" style=\"width:1px;height:1px;overflow:hidden\">?<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In an excellent writeup I encountered via Facebook, a &#8216;team mom&#8217; writes about &#8220;5 Things Parents Shouldn&#8217;t Say to Their Kids&#8220;. The premise of the<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-884","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-better-parenting"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=884"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/884\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naveen.bachwani.com\/beingdad\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}